how to get your ex husband or wife back

Dear Friend,

Believe me when I say it - I know what you are going through. One day, everything seems fine and peachy - you're happy together and every night you fall asleep next to him grateful for the wonderful husband you have...

And then he says those dreadful words, and suddenly it feels like the world is swirling around you, and you simply stand there, thunderstruck, unable to comprehend or believe...

Divorce is a terrible, painful thing to face. It saps your strength and drains you of emotional energy and resilience. It reduces your marriage to a painful sequence of grim, grey days, full of depression, disillusionment and disappointment.

And through all of it, just one question resonates through your mind...

"How could he? After everything I've done, after everything I've sacrificed for him - how could he?"

Divorce can be devastating - but it need not be inevitable. No matter how bad your marital situation may look like, the truth is, divorce is usuablly avoidable. In fact, I know hunderds of couples that stood at the very brink of separation - and yet discovered how to turn back fron the precipice at the very last moment.

How did they do it?

Allow me to let you in on a little secret here... The reason why so many marriages end in divorce is because, when faced with the possibiliy of separation, couples go about handling it in exactly the wrong way!

They harass, scream and yell at each other, involve their kids and family friends, accuse each other of all sorts of crimes - both real and imagined...

The end result... The couple ends up separating, shattering their lives and those of their children in the process...

But what if I were to tell you that there is a way to avoid the pain of separation, to make your husband reconsider his decision and make him give your marriage another chance?

What if I were to tell you that, through all this darkness and misery, there is a surefire way to replant the seeds of love in your marriage and make it blossom forevermore?

Let me make an educated guess here... Chances are, you've already tried doing some of the things that you believe would save your marriage. For example:

• You've explained to him over and over why it's the wrong decision - for you and your kids
• You've begged him for another chance, promising that this time, things will be different
• You've been giving in to everything your husband asks of you, just for the sake of keeping your marriage together

Do any of these sound familiar? If yes, then allow me to disappoint you terribly, here and now:

Stopping divorce is not about giving it to your husband or forcing him to stay!

When I read your book, it was like a shock to me. I realized that I had spent the last two months doing exactly the things you described I should not do! I begged him, trying to force him into staying, even threatened him with separation from kids if he leaves... Needless to say, nothing worked! It was only by following the advice in your book that I was finally able to reverse what seemed like an inevitable downward spiral towards divorce - and put my marriage back on the right track! Thank you - you can't imagine how much having him back in my arms means to me. Megan H., Atlanta

But don't worry - it's not your fault. The problem is, there's a tremendous amount of bad advice out there. Very often, these people mean well and they're genuine when they claim that they're just trying to save your marriage - but, unfortunately, most of such advice is rubbish that will either destroy the marriage even faster or, worse still, allow you to keep your husband by sacrificing your independence, freedom and self-respect.

You see, unfortunately, a lot of divorce-prevention guides out there put a lot of blame on you the wife. Somehow, you're the one who is responsible for the collapse of the marriage, and, somehow, you're the one who has to make all the changes, compromise and give without asking anything back just to keep your husband.

Now, let me come out and say it once and for all... This is nonsense!

Relationships are a two-way street - and while you can't get your husband to change, it is important to remember that both parties share the blame for marital problems equally.

This is why I put together a book that draws heavily on personal experiences, expert research and first-hand observation to identify what you as the wife can do to get your husband to make the changes needed to make the marriage work!

Allow me to let you in on a little secret... Although he may be the one seeking divorce, as his wife, you are ultimately the one who gets to decide how your marriage works out in the end!

You see, as his wife, there is a massive number of psychological techniques that you can employ to gently help him change his mind - without him even being aware of it!

In fact, if you play your cards right, in the end, he will be the one telling you that your marriage deserves another shot!

And the best part is... You don't need your husband's cooperation in this...

Whether he wants to or not, you will make him reconsider divorce!

But don't take my word for it - see for yourself what you will discover in this groundbreaking book!

Look, let me be very clear about something. I know that there are times when you feel like the problems you're facing are insurmountable. I know there are days when it seems like there's no hope left, and your only option is to give up and let it all go...

But before you throw in the towel, consider this - I've seen marriages bounce back from what even I thought was the point of no return. This book is based on studying marriages that were salvaged under circumstances where most other couples would simply give up and call it a day, because there seemed to be no way they could overcome any of these:

• Infidelity
• Lack of intimacy
• Loss of romance
• Lack of excitement and surprise
• Tediousness, monotomy and predictability
• Limited quality time together
• Possessive/uncaring husband

Let me assure you - no matter how bad things might seem, there are thousands of married couples out there who faced the same issues that you are facing and still managed to retain a loving and caring marriage!

The techniques that you will discover in this book are the same methods that were successfully used to bring these couples back from the brink and help them not only repair, but also rebuild and improve their marriage!

Let me be very honest with you - a marriage under the threat of divorce is not a fun marriage to be in. It is emotionally draining and psychologically overbearing, and, if the problem is not addressed quickly, can cause very serious emotional damage to both you and your husband.

But let me also tell you this... I know hundreds of couples who had a near-miss experience with divorce... But they persevered... They struggled on... And in the end, not only did they manage to stop divorce dead in its tracks, but they also used it as a unique opportunity to reevaluate their marriage and make it stronger than ever before!

In this book, I will show you not only how to avoid divorce, but also how to rebuild your marriage and reintroduce passion, excitement and thrill into it all over again. Not only will it help you stop divorce dead in its tracks, but it will also make your marriage stronger, more resilient, more exciting and more loving!

I'm not exaggerating when I say that you'll feel like you're 25 again!