Break ups are tough. They are especially tough if the break up is after a long term relationship and when you are still madly in love with this person. If you are trying to find out what you can do to stop the break up and get him to fall madly back in love with you, like he or she used to be, then you have found the right website.
I found out how to stop a break up. I was right where you stand today. I was desperate for answers. I was depressed. I was so heartbroken and grief stricken that I could not do anything except for cry. Going to work was a waste of time. I couldn't work at all. I would sit at my desk, quietly cry and write love letters to my lover. Sometimes, I would send hate mail instead if I was in the angry mood. The mood swings you get during a break up are terrible.
The depression has got to go. You are most likely in that depressed state, which is very normal, but it is only making things a lot worse for you. You have to get out of the depressed state because it is the only way you will ever be able to get your man back. While depressed, you will constantly make your lover feel worse about himself because he knows he is causing your pain. He doesn't want to be around this kind of self defeating nuisance. He doesn't want to feel worse about himself than he already feels, which is why he is trying to get away from you.
Once you can understand this, it will become easier for you to take the rest of the steps. It will also become important for you to know that he or she is not the one that can make you truly happy. You don't need your lover to do that. YOU are the only one who can make you feel better about yourself. I learned all of the mistakes, all the things I could do to turn the situation around and get my lover crawling back to me.
Hence, I created the guide Getting Him or Her Back. Just click HERE to read it!