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Meet Up For The First Time And Be Confident!
So you've got the date but you have no idea where you are going to go on your first date?
The best date in my opinion goes as follows.
You ring up the girl, tell her to meet you at your favorite cafe or bar for a quick drink. Chat for an hour or so, call it a night, go home.
That's what works for me and for every guy I know who is good with dating.
Guys try and impress to hard on first dates and take them to the most expensive restaurants and buy them fancy dinners.
If end up spending more then $20-$30 on a date, its too much. I can remember the best date of my life I brought 2 beers and she brought a wine and that was it.
We chatted for an hour or so, I ended the night and went home.
Make sure you never let your first dates go for too long, I never let them go over 2 hours and most only last an hour or so.
It's not about how long you spend on the date or how much money you spend, its about the impression you leave on the girl.
If you are funny and confident and the girl has a blast, all you need is an hour.
Yes, I've taken girls home after a first date like this, but I don't recommend it.
Body language and voice tone are so important when dating. You want to speak with confidence, walk with confidence and BE confident.
Here are a few tips I use.
- Do everything slowly
What I mean by that is don't look like your panicked or in a rush. Make every movement deliberate and cool.
- Walk slowly and upright
When you're walking, always walk with your shoulders back and slowly. Stand upright with good posture and stick your chest out and look around like you own the place.
- When sitting, lean back in your chair
Don't lean right forward and smother the girl, give her space, lean right back and look like you're too comfortable.
- Maintain eye contact and never mumble
Always look at her in the eyes when you're talking and never mumble or cover your mouth when you speak.