Help Getting A Date Article
Control The Pace Of The Relationship
Girls have a tendency to be their own worst enemy when it comes to killing attraction. If a girl had a really great time with you, she will ring you constantly, but it's your job as the man to control the relationship.
You don't have to pick up the phone everytime she rings you know.
Talking to each other constantly will ruin the attraction when you first start dating.
Here is what I do after a good date.
I ring her the next day, tell her I had a great, hope she did too, make some sort of funny comment, and go, "well, I gotta go, I'm pretty busy, so have fun, bye".
As you noticed, I didn't ask for a second date straight off the bat. I want her wondering about me for a while, building anticipation. I don't want to come across as needy and desperate.
Don't text her, don't email her, don't talk to her on msn, icq and don't ring her for a few days, then out of the blue, ask her for a second date.
If she rings you, you can pick up and go I'm kinda busy right now, and can't talk, so why don't we meet up, Tuesday next week at this place.
She basically did the asking out for you by ringing back and you don't come off as needy and desperate because you make it look like it was her idea!
Never see a girl more then 2 times a week when you are first dating for the first few months and you should be dating other women.
