he was alreday engaged

advice diva logoadvicedivatagline
Custom Search
Dating Help
The watch's dial is replica rolex the watch's second "business card", while the watch scale is uk replica watches the bearing time stamp. Time scale This small rolex uk detail design, through different ways of expression, will also give replica watches the watch a different style and beauty.
Marriage Help
Relationship Help
Romance Help
Romantic Intangibles
Love Tests
Fun Stuff
All our email and live chat relationship help is done through our expert panel.  Click below :
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex Therapy
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Divorce Counseling

  • We are home of the Original and Best Selling
       "How to Get Your Ex Back"    Click Here

    Help Center     See All
    Dating Insights
    Learn about the secrets to successful dating.

    1. For Men : How To Become An Alpha Male
    2. For Women : Men Made Easy

    Get Your Ex Back
    Now you can stop your break up, divorce or lovers rejection...even if your situation seems hopeless!

    1. The Magic Of Making Up
    2. Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
    3. Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
    4. Bring Back A Lost Love

    Marriage Help
    What to do to save your troubled marriage?

    1. Save My Marriage
    2. Stop Your Divorce

    How I Saved My Marriage
    My Story

    My husband's involvement and attraction towards me was fading away. It was only a matter a time before he would ask for a divorce. Even though I knew it would happen soon I was in a state of shock when the moment finally arrived.

    I did what I could to cope with it all. I derived a �what's wrong with us� list. Then followed it up with a �how to improve� list. I gone through episodes where I pleaded with my husband, tried to talk him out of it, cried while bluntly begging and other usual responses and tactics from someone who doesn't want a divorce. We tried counseling without success. In desperation, I suggested a trial separation hoping that he misses me and things would go back to normal.

    Story continues - read what happened next


    « Back

    Special Advertisers Section...

    50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships!
    Oprah Guru Michael Webb teaches how he and his wife have not had one fight in their 13 year marriage. He reveals the 50 secrets that not even 1% of couples are doing in order to maintain a blissful relationship. Click here to find out more. The Diva LOVES this book!

    Sex Secrets

    Proven secrets to add more fire to the bedroom!

    1. Best Premature Ejaculation Solution
    2. 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets
    3. Secret Orgasm Tips

    Dear Diva Rebecca,

    I met an amazing man a little over a week ago. He swept me off my feet to say the least. We spent so much time together getting to know each other on all levels. Recently I went out of town with him. When we got back to his home we were greeted by his fiance. What the hell was that about? She said they're engaged to wed today which was only two days from our encounter. I really thought, and still feel, that we were more than a ... well you know. I know he cares for me. What do I do? I think about him constantly. Please help.


    Sordid Affair
    Houston, TX

    Dear Sordid Affair,

    Girl, you were bamboozled! I hate to say it but I am sure you have heard of the groom's last fling before he gets married, right? You were it. This man is the epitome of unfaithfulness and immaturity.

    So, let me get this straight: You and this guy get along great and begin the courting process. You go away together and have a lovely time "getting to know each other" as you say. I can pretty much deduce that you mean getting bare naked and doing the wild thing for hours on end and having a good ol' time "on all levels". In your mind, you were having a blast and thinking this new man was great, he was really into you! In his mind, he was thinking he was going to have as much fun with his free penis as he possibly could before he was attached to a ball and chain with a very short leash. He was obviously determined to have one last romp in the land of consensual hook-ups.

    Now, you both get back to his place and there was another woman there who claims to be his fiance. I am slightly confused at this point. You mention nothing about the inevitable catfight which should ensue or the man getting drawn and quartered by both women......not even the mention of a nicely executed castration. What did you do? The woman says she is getting married to him in a few days and you just turned your tail and left? If she had no idea what just happened, you have every right as a fellow woman in the sisterhood to say, "Hey, you might want to rethink your selection because I just banged the hell out of your future husband and he didn't even have the common courtesy to say he was betrothed". We women need to protect each other. You should have spared her from a life of experiencing late nights at the office, flat tires, lipstick marks on the collar and lingering odors of unfamiliar perfume.

    Now for the other woman. What did she do? You two walk in from a long weekend together with bags in tow. You were obviously together. Did the guy just make up some excuse and you went with it? Or did the woman understand and acknowledge his dirty little deed as a common behavior? Meaning: Was she cool with it? She just casually announced, "Oh, did you have fun with my future husband?" I just don't get it.

    And now you are actually wondering if you two were more than just a fling because you thought he really dug you. Trust me, you were just a fling. Unless he decides to cancel the wedding the last minute and bang down your door with apologies and very large and expensive gifts, I would really consider moving on. This man is not for you. And by now, he is already married. I hope my ramblings have by now persuaded you to realize the notion that you were completely used.

    You only knew him for a couple of days. It should be relatively easy for you to move on with your life and leave him in the dust. But don't let this experience leave you with a bad taste in your mouth! Everyone has some pretty bad stories and this one is yours. You now have some experience under your wing. Just laugh it off. This will make a great story to tell at parties. A good "Beware of the Groom To Be" story.

    I hope I have helped you to see the situation more clearly.


    Diva Rebecca

    Not everyone will agree with me, everyone has their own opinion.
    What would your advice be?
    Be respectful and courteous. Rude remarks and slander of any kind will be removed.