How To Date Men
Dating men should be looked at as a fun thing to do, not something to be so anxious about that you will toss your cookies thinking about your impending date. In the dating world, women have it great. Sure, you can offer to pay, but a real man will never ever let you pay on the first date, the first couple of dates actually. This is where women have got it made. Enjoy dating while you can. Have a few free dinners and don't feel badly if it doesn't work out. This is all part and parcel of dating. You can't expect every date to be the one you have been waiting for, but you can enjoy the date as a night out with benefits! Ahh.....I love being a woman.
The most important thing to remember when you are first dating is honesty. Be completely honest about you, yourself, what you do, what you do for fun and more. Because if this is the guy that ends up being your match and then he finds out that you were dishonest about nearly everything, this guy will never trust you again. Also make sure that you are open and honest about your dating practices. Let him know right away that you are dating around. Because if you try to hide your other dates from him intentionally and he finds out after maybe deciding that you are the one for him, he will be put off. This again leads to mistrust and you can not build a relationship upon ground which is already shaky at best. After a few dates you can mutually then decide if you want to step it up and he will already know that you are dating so no surprises will be in store for him. He will sweetly ask you to stop dating other people. If you agree to this, do the right thing and be honest with your other dates.
One of the bestdating guides on the market today is completely computer accessible. It is written by Michael Webb, Oprah's Dating Expert and is called A Better Way To Date. This guide will teach you how to land the dates, keep them coming and most importantly, how to find the RIGHT GUY for you. Not every guy you go on a date with is going to be the one for you. This is the problem many women have. They go on one date and expect him to be the right guy and when he isn't or when he hurts her, even when he is totally wrong for her, she feels devastated. This is why it is important to read this manual and know what to look for and how you can actually find the perfect man who is meant for you alone. AdviceDiva.Com highly suggest this book because it also teaches you how to build a new and lasting relationship correctly. Mr. Webb assumes that most people enter a new relationship with the wrong frame of mind and he teaches us how to change our attitudes which will enable us to build a real and lasting relationship.
If you are serious about dating, my tip is to date as much as possible! Join an online dating service or better yet, join MySpace.Com (it is free). If you find a connection with someone, don't just stop there and settle on him. Talk to a bunch of people! Set up and arrange date after date! This way you get to know as many people as possible and you get to be selective. There is nothing wrong with this approach as long as you are honest to all who are involved. Enjoy yourself and your singlehood.
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