How many times have you and your lover began to make love just because you have some precious alone time together? There you two are, in your ratty old pajamas, make up rubbed off from a long day at work, hair disheveled, just trying to take advantage of the small amount of time for play. It happens. It can't always be glamorous as it seems to be in the movies. Americans are overworked with less and less time for fun.
The problem with messing around in your same old night time clothes is not big, it just causes a little boredom and perhaps a little less passion. When you don't feel like you look great, you don't feel that sexy either.
Trying dressing up just for sex. And I don't mean in costumes like a cowboy hat and boots (but you can!). I mean dressing up like you two are going out on your first date. Go all out once in a while. Garter belt, sexy new underwear, sleek black dress, some jewelery. Guys: "every girl is crazy about a sharp dressed man". Wear a suit with a satin button down shirt underneath. Do your hair and makeup too. When you look good, you feel good and you feel sexy! And when you feel sexy.....sex is so much better.
You don't have to let the buck stop there. If you are a fantasy guy or girl, use it for some fetish fun. Dress up like Wonderwoman, Batman, a sexy nurse, a cowboy or a sexy coed. You know the drill. Have a blast and let your imagination fly.
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